Don O’Connor, 72, passed away on February 15th in his hometown of Orillia, Ontario, after a courageous battle with leukemia. His strength and resilience in the face of such challenges were truly inspiring, and he faced each day with a smile. Despite the hardships, Don remained a hero, holding strong until the very end.
Don’s early years were spent in Low, Quebec, where he grew up on a farm and worked in the family general store. He later found his true calling with the Ontario Provincial Police, where he dedicated more than 30 years of his life to serving others. His passion for policing didn’t end with his retirement; Don continued to serve in various roles, including a UN peacekeeping mission to Haiti with the RCMP, the OPP recruitment unit, and conducting polygraphs and investigations. His love for law enforcement was passed down to his two sons, both of whom followed in his footsteps.
Throughout his career, Don became a legend within the OPP, earning the respect of both uniformed officers and civilian staff. Though his exterior might have seemed tough, those who knew him understood that he had one of the biggest hearts. He cared deeply for others and showed this in everything he did.
While Don’s career in policing was a significant part of his life, his family always came first. He was incredibly proud of his children and grandchildren, frequently expressing his love and support. He could always be found cheering them on at various events—hockey, ringette, soccer, lacrosse, gymnastics, and dance.
Don leaves behind his loving wife of 34 years, Cathy O'Connor, children Matthew O'Connor (Kandice), Sean O'Connor (Sonia), and Shannon O'Connor (Mitch), as well as his predeceased daughter Erin O'Connor. He was also a proud grandfather to Kalleigh, Darcy, Owen, Drew, and another granddaughter on the way. Don will be deeply missed by his many friends, siblings, and extended family.
The family would like to extend special thanks to Dr. Maze from Princess Margaret Hospital, Dr. Dimaria and Dr. Sanders, and his favorite nurse, Taylor, from the Barrie RVH Cancer Centre. A heartfelt thank you to Dr. Sochaniwsky for his unwavering support from the very beginning.
Don will always be remembered for his infectious laughter, his unwavering love for his family, and his sense of humor, which remained intact until his final days. One of his last memorable phrases was, "Let’s get this show on the road."
A celebration of life will be held at Carson Funeral Home on Thursday March 6th, 2025 1-4pm. Located at 54 Coldwater Street East Orillia- 705-326-3595. Sharing of memories will take place at 3pm.
In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Alzheimer’s Society and OPP Youth Foundation.
Condolences
Ronald Nettle
Mar 10, 2025My deepest sympathy to the O'Connor family . Don was a wonderful person and he will be missed dearly . R.I.P. Don
George Tyo
Mar 6, 2025My deepest condolences to Cathy and family. Doc and I met through Lodestar close to 10 years ago. Although we never worked together with the O.P.P., we shared mutual friends and colleagues and spent many hours reminiscing about the “old days”. I will never forget his passion for work and family and he was a great role model for his successors. Until the next time we meet, I’ll continue to keep the faith, my friend.
Bryn Thom
Mar 6, 2025Growing up, I have many fond memories of my Uncle Donny, who was truly a remarkable and compassionate individual. I hold him and his family close in my thoughts today and always.
Rob P.
Mar 6, 2025Rest in peace, Don. No matter how many times you called with your caller ID blocked, I always knew it was you—and I always looked forward to our conversations. Your kindness, humor, and friendship meant so much to me, and I will truly miss you. Though it’s heartbreaking to say goodbye, I take comfort in knowing you are at peace and no longer suffering. Having lost family in the past six months, I understand the pain of loss, but I’ve also learned that, with time, we find ways to cope while keeping their memory alive. My thoughts and prayers are with your family and loved ones during this difficult time. You may be gone, but you will never be forgotten
Jack Anthopoulos
Mar 6, 2025My condolences to the O’Connor family. I had the pleasure of meeting and working with Doc for 8 years. It felt like I had known him forever as we shared the same passion for our work we did. He was a great friend, and will be greatly missed. Cheers my friend. Rest in peace. Jack
Andy Durno
Mar 5, 2025My condolences to the O'Connor family. Having known doc for several years he was a dedicated, professional in his various assignments throughout his career. Also shared many good times and laughs with him. RIP my friend.
Shantal & Rick Cochrane
Mar 4, 2025Our deepest condolences to the O'Connor family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Love and hugs to our Kandice!
Flynn O'Connor
Mar 1, 2025We offer our deepest condolences for the families loss. He was a beloved uncle and we will miss him.
Anne and David Ezekiel
Feb 26, 2025It is with heavy hearts that Anne and I say goodbye to a very good friend and colleague. Doc was a beloved member of the Lodestar team and since 2013 when Anne and I first me Doc, we have nothing but fond memories of him. He had so many great stories to tell about his many exploits with the OPP where he served with honour and distinction for over 30 years. He was above everything else, an old school cop, a consummate professional and a really good guy. I know his second career with Lodestar was also filled with many good times and he really loved the camaraderie, bugging the young guys and affectionately giving them all nicknames like Linus and the Young Lads. I know that Doc was very happy at Lodestar, he loved doing investigations, conducting surveillance and being on the road doing spins with his trusted partner George Cousens. To Cathy and all the O'Connor family our deepest and heartfelt condolences on your loss. Rest easy Doc Anne and David Ezekiel Ottawa
Lisa & Bill Kurpel
Feb 24, 2025Cathy & Family, we are so very sorry for the loss of your beloved husband, father, grandfather, and friend. You are in our prayers.
Mike Harrington
Feb 22, 2025To Cathy, all of Don's children, their spouses, and Don's grandchildren: please accept my deepest condolences on the loss of your Patriarch, Don. Although I did not know Don well on a personal level, I was very aware of the respect that he commanded from all of his peers in the police community and from those who knew him well. I know that Don was a very committed family man and put the needs and interests of his family above his own. Don dedicated many years of his life to serving the people of Ontario, Canada, and abroad as a police officer of the highest calibre, and is owed a large debt of gratitude for his faithful and unwavering service. Don was man of high integrity and character. He will be missed by most everyone who knew him. Although I will not be able to attend the service celebrating his life, I will have Cathy and Don's family in my thoughts. Don's life, his contributions to his community and his character is well worthy of a celebration for a life well and fully lived.
Dean Hammond
Feb 21, 2025I spent a lot of time as a kid playing at Don's house (I was good friends with his son, Sean). Whether it was swimming in the pool, family dinners, or driving to hockey games, Don always treated me well and made me feel completely welcome. He had a big heart, and you could tell he was the kind of guy who wanted to see his kids happy and successful. He will be missed! Thanks for the happy childhood memories, Don.
Alf Pistolkors
Feb 21, 2025To Cathy and family, my deepest condolences. I've known Doc for many years since I started with the OPP Bureaus. Doc was a very special man. He was always kind and considerate of everyone around him, always there to offer guidance and experience. It was an honour and a privilege to have known and worked with him. There were many laughs and good times over the years. He will be sadly missed. RIP Doc.
Noelle Lawson
Feb 20, 2025My heart hurts to hear that Doc has passed on. It was wonderful working with him years ago because he always made me feel like I was a part of the team. It didn’t matter if you were uniform or civilian, he always had time for you. I remember many times when he had us laughing so hard that our sides would burst. He came into my office one day with a long face and he told me that the doctor diagnosed him with CRS. Concerned I asked him, what’s that? He said, Can’t Remember Stuff! And that instantly made him one of my favourite people in OPP! I will miss catching up with you over coffee in the Caf, Doc. My deepest condolences to his family. Noelle Lawson
Gary Crandell
Feb 20, 2025To Cathy and the entire O'Connor family, I extend my sincere condolences to you at this most difficult time. I had the pleasure of working with Doc in the mid 1980's in Technical Support Branch. He was always a voice of reason and guidance for me when i was the "new guy" Gone but not forgotten, RIP brother!
Donald Everts
Feb 20, 2025My condolences. I worked for Doc in PATT years ago, was a great guy and an excellent leader. He will be missed. Rest in peace brother.
Bob Adams
Feb 20, 2025Cathy,so sorry to hear about Doc. Many good memories of working with him in Akwasasne. Gone far too young. He will be missed. RIP Doc Bob
Barry Hanniman
Feb 19, 2025RIP Brother
Jane McDonough
Feb 19, 2025Cathy, my sincere condolences to you and your family. Don will be missed, but he will never be forgotten. Wishing you strength during this difficult time. Jane
Members of the OPPVA, Chapter 11 ~ Hawkesbury
Feb 19, 2025Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies for your loss. Our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time. RIP Brother...
Susan Thorburn
Feb 19, 2025Don, you always made me smile. You had a warm and wonderful way about you, that was so contagious. Thank you for being my friend. My sincere condolences to Cathy, Matt, Sean and Shannon. Keep the memories of your Dad close, he will always be with you. Blessings I am sorry I won't be able to attend the celebration, it will be a very special time with friends and family. (I am escaping the snow!) Take good care of yourselves. Much Love
Jackie vincent
Feb 19, 2025Don was always so welcoming and a true gentleman .I loved to listen to his stories about his work it sounded so exciting.He will be so missed by all who knew him. He was a good man lots of love Jackie xx
Tom Girling
Feb 19, 2025Worked with Don quite a bit. Loved his sense of humour. The last thing we did was build a closet together. It should have only taken a couple of hours but took all day because we were laughing so much. I didn't want to finish it. RIP Don, my condolences to Cathy and family.
Cindy Nettle and Sam Orawski
Feb 19, 2025Sam and I will truly miss Don. I am so grateful, I had the chance to see and speak with Don at Uncle Bob's 85 th birthday celebration. Sam will miss his shop talk, as Don called it. Don was an exceptional person and we will truly miss him. Our thoughts are with Catherine and the entire family. Love always 💕 Cindy and Sam
Rod Williams
Feb 19, 2025Don lived these recent years with incredible courage and optimism in the face of a grave illness. Don lived for family milestones and gatherings. Gone is one of the greatest police storytellers. RIP
Suzanne Chaddock
Feb 19, 2025Cathy .. Doc was a great boss with an amazing sense of humour. My sincere condolences to you and your family.
Keith Messham
Feb 19, 2025My heartfelt condolences Cathy to you and your family. I never got an opportunity to work with Doc but knew how well he was respected throughout the OPP.
Colin Groskopf
Feb 19, 2025My sincere condolences to Cathy, the family and friends. I had the pleasure of working and consulting with Don and he was a tremendous help in all of our endeavours. He loved the job and loved his family. Rest in peace brother, you will be missed.
Becky Sarjeant
Feb 19, 2025Dear Cathy and the O'Connor family, Sending you condolences and love on the passing of Don. Hold tight the memories. With love, Becky
Tigera
Feb 18, 2025Cathy, my sincere condolences to you and your family. Wishing you comfort and peace in the days ahead.
Jayne Banks
Feb 18, 2025Csthy and family, my deepest condolences to you and your family
Mark Doubrough
Feb 18, 2025To Cathy and family my sincere condolences. I had the pleasure of working with Doc when I was a new Tech Guy. He was always helpful. Getting to know Doc and being a neighbour, he was a great guy with a passion for what he did and his family. RIP
Kimm Horne
Feb 18, 2025Cathy and family, my deepest condolences for your loss. I have known Don since we were both hired as BGI's in 2017. We laughed a lot. He had such a great sense of humour. He loved his family and was so proud of you all. All my sympathy, Kimm Horne
Dan Conway
Feb 18, 2025My sympathy to Cathy and family. RIP my friend and brother. You will be missed.
Rachel Adams
Feb 18, 2025Cathy, Shan, Sean & Matt - I am so sorry for your loss. I cannot think of my beautiful friend Shannon and her amazing family without thinking of her amazing Dad, Don. Shannon is one of the most positive, hardworking, bright lights in so many of our lives and I know so much of that came from the values, habits and beliefs instilled by Don. In our first year at Queen's, I remember Shannon telling us about her Dad, who could run lie detector tests, had worked in Haiti, spoke fluent French, was a police officer and I truly didn't think he could be any cooler :) . Don will be so missed, but the beautiful O'Connor family is a testament to his tremendous character and strong spirit, which will continue always. The biggest hugs and love to you all.
John Henry
Feb 18, 2025Rest in Peace Brother in Blue. My most sincere condolence to Cathy and her family
Vinnie
Feb 18, 2025Heart felt condolences to the family from an admirer in New Jersey. Rest in Peace Doc.
Lisa and Russ Callan
Feb 18, 2025Dear Cathy and family, our thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this difficult time. Don’s family values were so inspiring and heart warming. He always made us feel welcome and part of his extended family. Our son is so fortunate to have such a wonderful father-in-law. He will always be remembered fondly.
Rob Goodfellow
Feb 18, 2025My condolences to Cathy and the entire O'Connor family. Doc was a great guy and someone I truly admired. I spent a lot of time with Doc between Drug Squad and my time in Polygraph. He was quick to offer a hand, quick with a joke and always looked after his people. One of a kind. You'll be missed my friend. RIP brother.
Jim Mascola
Feb 18, 2025Cathy and family. I'm so sorry to hear about Donc's passing. He was a great man, cop and will be sorely missed. Unfortunately, I am away and cannot attend his service. Again ..condolences Jim
George and Kathy COUSENS
Feb 18, 2025To Cathy and your family our sincere love and condolences on the loss of a true legend the Doc. He will truly be missed. Doc, for the past 10 years it has been privilege, honor ,pleasure and fun working with you as partners. Great times bud. You had a work ethic that in unmatched. Love ya RIP
Bob Cousineau, OPPVA Chapter 18
Feb 18, 2025Don (DOC) joined the OPP in 1975, and retired as a Detective Staff Sergeant after 31 years of service. In retirement, DOC joined the Ontario Provincial Police Veterans' Association - Chapter 18. His dedication and contributions to the association will always be remembered. Please accept our heartfelt condolences during this difficult time. A donation to the OPP Youth Foundation will be made in his honour.
Walter & Helen Lima
Feb 18, 2025Our deepest Condolences.
Teresa cummings
Feb 18, 2025Don was definitely my favourite brother-in-law while I was married to his wife’s brother and we continued to know each other after. He was very passionate and dedicated to everything he did, especially his family. He will be greatly missed and forever loved! I hope the show lives up to his expectations!